“Receiving”:
For many of us, a big challenge in the bedroom..
🕑 Added 2022-05-19 11:00:46 +0000 UTC
“Receiving”:
For many of us, a big challenge in the bedroom is asking for what we want and allowing our partners to give to us without the expectation of us giving back. A majority of people get turned on more by seeing their partner’s excitement than being seen in their own.
It’s even hammered into us from our earliest years… “it’s better to give than to receive”. Well, I disagree as there are elements of giving AND receiving in both roles. In the receiving you’re giving yourself the powerful gift of self love and to your giver, helping them feel sexy, skilled and confident. This leads to greater chemistry as desires are being met, pleasure experienced, and trust builds.
When partners ask for what they want it helps each other learn about preferences and desires. This type of communication heightens the overall satisfaction level and allows for the sex to evolve rather than stay the same all the time. Try this with partners. Give each other a block of time (10-15 minutes) where you each can ask for what you want and really receive. Be creative don’t just stick with the obvious routine you always do— broaden your definition of intimacy. You’ll be amazed at what you learn about your parter and be inspired to add more variety into your play time.
A big naked hug and thanks to @santinox for creating this with me 🌹
