Little update: I’m going to take a few days away from answer..
🕑 Added 2022-01-29 13:25:07 +0000 UTC
Little update: I’m going to take a few days away from answering DMs. I had something really, really upsetting sent yesterday that really brings me to a *dark place* and I need some time to shake it.
I do want to say a little PSA though: I know a lot of subscribers don’t actually see us (digital creators/THOTs/OF girls/however you describe us) as people. Obviously, many of you do, and I obviously appreciate that soooo much *(this PSA probably isn’t meant for you)*, but let’s face it, most people don’t. We are just machines to distribute kinks, whatever they may be. I will always do my absolutely damnedest to never kink shame, even when it’s something that I have no interest in participating in, **even when it’s something that’s off putting to me as an individual**, or even when it’s something that I am genuinely uncomfortable with. I will always say, “that’s not something I’m comfortable with or that’s not something I offer”. I’ll always be polite but firm with my boundaries because they are my boundaries.
Please, for the love of fucking god or whatever you believe, leave it at that and respect that decision. Not just with me, but with **every creator**. Boundaries are there for a reason and should 1,000% be respected. No excuses. No ifs, ands, or buts. They don’t need a life story. They don’t need an explanation. They **don’t need to be brought up ever again**.
Again, I’ll be away from DMs for a few days, probably crying into my pillow feeling like a POS. I do apologize that this comes off as pretty heavy for someone who tries really hard to always present myself full of sunshine and rainbows, but I felt that **if** the cold hard truth can make at least ONE person here more aware when speaking to other fetish content creators and help keep *them* from feeling the way I do, then it’s worth it.
And if you made it this far and are feeling that white knight urge to do something, please just take comfort knowing that I am a private person who (for the most part) is kinda good at handling their feels and mental health and will (probably) be AOK soon-ish. But also, retail therapy works too. 😅😅 (ok, the jokes are back. See! It’s all going to be ok).
One last little add, many of you know that I thoroughly enjoy acting out various kinks and role plays. I don’t want people to feel like their unique kinks are bad because one of my favourite things about this job is that I have helped people feel more comfortable expressing them. This post is solely about taking time to consider not everyone’s kinks align and to respect boundaries when they don’t. Period.
