Foreplay and Our videos:
Sunny and I were talking recently..
🕑 Added 2023-02-28 19:50:53 +0000 UTC
Foreplay and Our videos:
Sunny and I were talking recently about how in a lot of porn the guy will just walk-in rock hard and ready to go. Now we all know that is not always the case during intimacy and it is an unrealistic and possibly damaging expectation to set for yourself or your partner.
There is so much more than just bl0od that goes into an erection- resources, mental state, energy from your other partner, sleep, underlying health, etc. What you don't see in many videos is the foreplay or prep that may go into making a guy hard- whether that is from a PDE5 inhibitor (your common ED medications) or a bit of foreplay to get him hard.
It is a common view that a flaccid penis is not attractive so many videos just cut out the fluffing and start with the sex right away. In doing so we may have also created an unrealistic expectation for men to just be able to get hard with the snap of a finger and pressure from their partner to just get there, and in doing so we have left out the importance of foreplay for everyone involved.
So while the beginning of our videos may not be the most exciting, we wanted to leave those parts in because foreplay is incredibly important for both of us, and at times you will see that it may take us both a little longer to get there. Sex is an experience to us, like a hobby, and we are rarely in a rush to just get in and get off. Don't get me wrong, quickies can be amazing 😊. However, it is also important to us that we show you the entire process of playing in our healthy and intimate relationship.
There are certainly times that I am dripping wet ready to go, and Sunny is fully erect through his shorts but that isn't all the time and we don't ever expect that from each other. Our goal is to normalize everything in sex, normalize talking about it- the good, the great, the gross all of it. We want to normalize the conversation around bodies, societal "norms," and exploring your kinks. We also want to normalize the foreplay that goes into sex and the importance of aftercare when you are done playing with each other!
