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I was chatting with my mother today about kinks and stuff, t..
🕑 Added 2022-10-30 18:17:38 +0000 UTC I was chatting with my mother today about kinks and stuff, things that she has NEVER been comfortable talking about, something I feel needs to be normalized in her life and personally I don’t want to have to “hide,” this part of my life from anyone that is important to me because I’ve hidden myself for so long behind shame and sexual guilt. She started asking questions like- 1. How do you have conversations with someone about things you may be into but they might not be, 2. How do you explore this life style, 3. How do you say you don’t want to do something, 4. How do you find a partner that you trust sexually with these kinks to not emotionally blackmaill you or use them against you. All things I’ve had to think of myself in the past, my mother is not youngg, and while this made me a little sad that she has had similar experiences with unsafe partners or being shamed sexually to not be able to explore any possible kinks or even being too embarrassed to ask these questions, it makes me really proud of her that she is willing to start asking the questions, discovering new things, and being open to having those tough conversations with future partners. I discussed consent, I discussed how sunny and I explore new things and immediately discuss them afterwards, how we talk about everything- but it wasn’t always that easy and that foundation takes work and time to build- but that foundation is built on love, trust, consent, and friendship. I gave her two resources that really helped me to explore kinks, BDSM, and a way to have that conversation with her partner about new sexual exploration in a way that removes her from being the person asking. I wanted to share those resources with you and I’d love to talk about your results or things you and your partner may have discovered together. First resource: https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode I have attached my results (from prior to us starting OF) and Sunny’s results so you guys can see just how compatible we are sexually! This talks about so many of the Limbs of BDSM that I wasn’t even fully familiar with until I took this and did some research, I absolutely agree with our results and would love to see what yours are. This is honestly a really fun thing to do alone so you know but also even just a couple of dates in to really start that kink conversation early- or a way to do now further in a relationship to possibly rediscover some things about yourselves! 2. Spicer Sex App- this app is a really fun way to be able to ask those harder sexual questions without actually having to ask them, the app asks them and then when you’re done will show you the answers that your partner and you match on and want to try together- this way if you’re not comfortable at first asking about something like pegging, or anal, or literally anything- this gives you that way to discuss it and try new things together!! I’m so excited for you to be able to explore without shame, to open that communication, and to try so many new things alone or with someone else. So much love sunny and skye ⛅️
